Baby Adoption
Summary: Domestic vs. International Baby Adoption.
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Domestic Adoption and International Adoption are options considered
by many people looking to add a member to their family. Whether an issue
of infertility
or just the desire to fill your heart with the love of a child, adoption
is the legal bond creating a “parent-child” relationship.
Both domestic and international adoption come with great reward – and
frustrations. Being educated about the process, having reasonable expectations
and good organization are three important keys to weathering the process.
Domestic Adoption:
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A term used when the adoptive parents(s) and the adoptive child
are from the same country.
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Children of any age are available—even days old. This is
appealing to those most interested in adopting a newborn. One benefit
is the ability to bond with the child at the youngest possible moment.
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The cost of adopting domestically can be little to nothing if
done with the state or through a foster care situation. Costs may
increase with the use of an agency or in private adoption. Generally,
domestic adoption is considered less expensive than international.
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Costs are often predictable.
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May have a complete and accurate medical history of the adopted
child as well as the possibility of a family medical history.
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May provide the adopted child with a sense of history and place.
Personal details may be available to the adoptee as they age and
mature. These facts may give the child a sense of being.
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Domestic adoption is often a less intimidating option for those
unfamiliar or uncomfortable with international travel and cultures.
It avoids having to deal with an unfamiliar culture.
Types of Domestic Adoption:
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Foster Care Adoption: usually with the assistance of a not-for-profit
adoption agency or state assistance. - Independent Adoption:
usually with an adoption agency / adoption attorney / adoption facilitator.
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Relative Adoption: Often by a grandparent or other family member
with the assistance of an attorney.
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Open Adoption: Identifying information is shared between the birth
parent or mother and the adoptive parent and child. Contact may also
continue after the adoption. Open adoption is becoming more common.
Laws differ by state.
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Closed Adoption: No identifying information is exchanged between
the birth parent and the adoptive parent and contact is not maintained.
Non identifying information is often exchanged about all parties including
medical history and other details. Considered more traditional although
less common than in the past. Laws differ by state.
International Adoption:
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International Adoption takes place in a foreign country where the
adoptive parents and the child do not have the same citizenship status.
The laws that apply are not only those of the birthparents, but also
of the adoptee.
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The children available are usually 6 months or older with an age
range that varies by country.
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Family history and/or medical history are not generally exchanged.
Often the children adopted were abandoned by their parents without
their identity being known in reaction to laws and societal norms
within the country.
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Internationally adopted children may be able to identify with their
cultural identity.
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International Adoption may be expensive. Costs including travel,
agency fees, orphanage donations and paper work may range from $10,000
to $35,000 with an average in the low 20’s.
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From start to finish an international adoption may be complete within
12 months depending on the speed in which prospective parents complete
the necessary paperwork and issue resulting with the desired country.
Common International Adoption Countries:
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China
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Russia
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Guatemala
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South Korea
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Ukraine
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Kazakhstan
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India
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Columbia
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Types of International Adoptions:
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Agency Adoptions: The most common type. Generally, a not-for-profit
agency assists the prospective parents through the paperwork process.
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Independent Adoptions: Usually made with the assistance of a facilitator.