Single International Adoption
Summary: A first person perspective
on single parent international adoption. Kate is in the early
stages of her single international adoption and has agreed to
share her story as she continues the single parent international
adoption process.
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I am continually amazed at the number of single men and
women who adopt. I still do hear the occasional comment 'It's too bad
you aren't married because then you could adopt' I do a quick education
and say with a huge grin on my face, 'actually you can adopt if you are
single, married, purple or blue the most important thing is that you can
provide a loving, permanent home for a child and marriage is not the only
way in which one can do that'.
You see sometimes I take it upon myself to become the voice
for single adoption, perhaps that is what drew me to writing a diary for
this site.
One thing I always thought when I looked at singles blog's and sites was
'how did you get to the stage where you were ready to do this?'. These
wonderful stories always started at the beginning of the adoption process
- they had contacted agencies, perhaps decided what country to adopt from,
were beginning homestudy etc but it left me wondering. What did they do
to get to this spot? How did they know they were ready? How did they begin?
So, here I am, a single, who knows I love children, who hasn't met that
Mr Right, at is at a crossroad. Welcome to my journey!
Kate